Sunday, April 22, 2012

An Opened Door


A girl sits in a coffee shop. She’s numb and in a daze- craving to be noticed. Unable to speak, but capable of writing, she composes a prolonged plea before the Lord. Needing a dependable foundation while everything else is diminishing, disappearing and dying; nothing in this world remains.  Seeking a strong and sturdy Comforter within a weakened and unreliable environment- the people- this earth:
            “Dear God,
I need you!  I’m strained. My hand is hurting and I want to stop writing, but I can’t. I have to talk to you. I want to see you. I need you!”
            With a demeanor reflecting her loss she traipses to the door. There’s a lack of energy to fight for joy. With affliction and melancholy- her invisible attendants- she heads home.
            That night she lingers into bed. Her brain is overactive. It’s uncontrollable-reluctant to wind down. Light is creeping through the cracks of the door. Is her brother still up?
            Her resolution being that: even if he was, he couldn’t help.”
Restless, the girl turns toward her dresser. Her cell phone is placed on top of it. She could call her sister, but, “Ohhhhh, it’s too late! I’d only wake her up.”
            Gaping at the ceiling while twirling her hair; fearing over future events she just can’t get to sleep…
            Two o’clock: She’s in bed and still awake. No one else is up. She’s alone. It’s dark. Her mind won’t turn off. Her desperation- to experience company- a desire to vent to someone- leads her to the Confidant.
            “God, I need you! It’s you and I, so come! Where are you?”
            Affirming His truth- a clear voice heard within her mind- He speaks, saying, ”I’ve got you. I’m holding you. You’re my daughter and I’ve got you cradled up in the palm of my hands. I hold you secured. You’re safe. Trust me! Do you hear?!”
            He questions her presence of faith: “Where are you?”
            He reiterates His enduring company and explains, “I yell to you at night and you don’t wake up. I call to you during the day and you don’t turn to look at me. I watch over you and you don’t feel my presence. I hold your hand and you don’t trust me.
            He challenges: “Where are you? You ask where I am, but I haven’t seen you for weeks. You sit on your bed, you watch TV, you play the piano, but you aren’t here!”
            He’s persistent: “I’m looking for you! Where is your heart?”
             Acknowledging Him, she confesses, “I don’t’ see you. I don’t feel you. You’ve gone away- I’ve heard you, but I haven’t experienced you.”
            Emphasizing His abiding faithfulness, He prompts, “Where is your trust? Am I not your Father? Have I not promised to never forsake you- abandon you and leave? I speak truth! I keep all my promises. I am here! You may not trust me! But I do; I trust in you to be everything I’ve envisioned you to be, since before you were born. You have purpose, because I crafted you with mighty intentions!“
            “When you scream ‘NO!’, I shout, ‘YES!’”
            “When you insist, ‘Please, not me’, I declare, ‘Surely, I choose you!’”
            “When you claim, ‘I am unable’, I proclaim, ‘I am able. I have limitless strength so you do too. Trust, because, surely I trust in you too.’”
            He professes His chase for her, by asserting, “I’ve pursued you all the days of your life. Come to me. Receive my mighty truth and live by it, my daughter. For, I am with you. Have faith and live!”
            Discovering peace she recognizes that He’s her man! She remains fully founded in His eternal embrace. Wholeheartedly she’s surrendered. His bride has pursued and He has been revealed.  Her door was opened and she’s susceptible to encountering her Husband, Father, Confidant, Comforter and Counselor. He loves, He knocks, and assuredly, like the rising of the sun, He will find! The wife is united with her faithful Husband and there’s fulfillment. There is value in His treasure so He will pursue- becoming visible before His child- His bride- His love- as they vulnerably chase Him

Sunday, February 19, 2012

He's Mine!

A lady who's not defined by age, accomplishments or by what she's able to achieve. There's a vision relapsing within my head...
Notice that in relationships a woman's confidence seems to beam brighter with a man by her side. Her trust is in him entirely for protection and security. The lady is confident in the guys ability to provide for her. There's dependence upon him to meet and exceed spiritual, emotional and if married, physical needs and expectations.
A guy rubbing his lady's back or twirling her hair while their sitting down side by side causes her to straighten up. The couple is standing up and waiting- they embrace- the woman stands up taller. There's a pair of two smitten adults promenading about while holding hands; the woman walks with confidence in each stride. Posture improves significantly.
This is where I envision myself in the next year. NOT with a boy on this earth, rather with God. There's an enticing perception of the Lord as a Husband and Father. It's crucial to be dependent upon His presence and be forever encouraged by His abiding truth.
 Beauty, encouragement, wisdom and guidance are spoken by influential folk. The words of human's transform one's demeanor, molds their perceptions and influences the decisions that they make. Occasionally fulfillment in the words of surrounding people are listened to more than the eternal truth written and spoken by the enduring Creator..
 It is my aspiration to be the WOMAN distinguished by her relationship with God. Wearing that fake engagement ring (that looks real) not to purposefully tease people or to have a stranger inquire about how long I've been married (people have/do and I've created a story to tell the silly folks who choose to ask about my "marriage life"...great stuff). I'm married, sure! What's his name? Hmmmm...(no more Henry Darcy) Jesus?! And NO, I'm not a nun...
The vision is of a petite, blue-eyed brunette adult strutting confidently into a room. There's a tall guy walking with her. They're holding hands, he's embracing her as they stand in line for coffee. He's rubbing her back as the two of them sit in church. No one else can see Him except for her. She is able to FEEL Him and SEE Him. This man has her back all the days of her life. He knows her. He provides for her. He speaks to her. He comforts her. He strengthens her. She's forever satisfied and is beaming with confidence.
She's in bed. She remains restless; going to bed at midnight and staying awake for the past two hours and He's persistent- "talk to me, my beloved! I am here. Trust me! Hear me! Feel me! For I AM HERE!"....
She trusts...
She surrenders...
She receives...
She's fulfilled...
She's confident...
She dances (with Him)...
She cries...
She vents...
She has faith...
She's loved...
She's ME!

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Unsatisfying Pursuit- A Redirected Chase

So life continues, experience is gained and emotions are stirred. Folks pursue when there is nothing appropriate to chase. Hearts are surrendered to others who lack acceptance of this responsibility. Relationships without guarded feelings and a cautious mind enables one to carelessly wander on to the battlefield of destruction. Perceptions of others become distorted.
Girls are eager to discover abiding love. They are anxious to accomplish tasks. Their aspirations are simply to receive all that they 'need' or 'want'.
The upcoming generation is being taught to pursue. If you want something or someone, but aren't in current possession of it then go after it!- a teaching that can have unfavorable outcomes.
This is a faulty lesson. I'm describing the dangerous perception of embracing the roll that another won't- often pertaining to relationships with, uh-huh, the opposite gender. (clarification moment; chasing after a person or thing isn't necessarily wrong or bad. Intentions, if not pure and/or cautiously presented can result in trouble).
Ladies are exposed to the defective fact that chasing after the hankering to experience an enchanting love is acceptable. The difficulty doesn't pertain to their dream of encountering an abidingly, satisfactory love. Yearning isn't shameful! Wanting to be loved is a desire woven within each person. The source that they're directed to is the temporary one of this world; ceasing to quench the thirst of acceptance. This is a desperate quest that if falsely guided will not produce the enduring satisfaction that is being scavenged for.
There are lame phrases uttered that lack originality. Usually the sentences are spoken at early ages- girls that are in search for a man when they aren't yet a woman. Their repetition throughout time make the enemy grin grotesquely with pleasure. Ladies scavenge the world for everlasting enchantments. Their pursuit leading them to an unreliable source.
The age in which people begin dating is a silly fact to ponder (junior high age: 12-14 yrs old). Their complaints after the ending of a relationship are laughable compositions of the heart. It's a touchy topic to speak of, because these are girls who aren't yet woman who desire to date a man, yet stumble across relationships with boys. They are chasing when they lack stamina. If the guy isn't what was expected then their view of  the entire gender is skewed because...occurred. But, dearie, how old were you? Where were you in life? Were you chasing him? Was he the one in pursuit?
If one aspires to be with or marry a man then be a woman. Be patient, and redirect your walk to the source that allows one to mature. Strive to achieve the visions that God has proclaimed over your life. With him one is able to succeed in accomplishing immeasurable tasks, authentically experience emotions in unfathomable circumstances for various reasons, and encounter an enduring enchantment with an everlasting King! 
When one surrenders their heart to the One who is eager to mend, revamp, reform and enhance it (your heart) the outcomes are incomprehensible. Abandoning personal desires and placing them in His mighty palms reflects the trust that you have in your Father, Husband, Refuge, Comfort,  and Confidant. It reveals the notion that, "hey, I believe in your existence and have witnessed that you are my Provider, Satisfaction, Significant Other...I now trust in you to BE MY LOVE. Take my heart and have your will!"
The process of being a woman- having faith, and demonstrating trust by completely surrendering to the One most deserving. (Mark 14:3-9, Luke 7:37, Matthew 26:13).
Having facial hair ceases to make one a man. A woman isn't characterized by age (18 or I can legally drink white wine!).
A girl becomes a lady (woman) when she can rest securely without desiring an earthly relationship. She has encountered God's infinite grace, His abundant supply of blessings, and abiding enchantment for her that her perspective of the world alters; people of this world are incapable of pouring exceeding amounts of love over her life. The Lord is the only one who can surpass all limited expectations; refusing to worry about not getting married because Jesus is all that's needed. Ya catch my drift (I'm prayin').
A boy becomes a lad (man) when he recognizes the importance of leadership, respect, and brotherhood... Fear may not diminish, but nonetheless is willing to pin-point behavioral flaws of another- potentially placing them in an unfavorable position in order to strengthen a person. Opinions differ, the other may be acting crudely- conducting oneself with decorum when announcing the view spotted from your stance (you may have a more extravagant vision of the sunrise, but inform then allow them to mosey on over. You can carry them, but once they're set on ground that doesn't change the positioning of their feet or the direction in which they walk- the only person able to control oneself is the individual themselves) ...Ya got it! (hopefully)

'The surrender of my “love life” were some of the most freeing, exhilarating, and joyful times in my life! I fell more in love with Jesus than I ever have before and my relationship with Him deepened in new ways that I didn’t know were possible. Instead of always looking for my future husband, I began looking for God and waiting for Him to reveal more of Himself each day. I never really thought about whom I was going to marry again...I was so in love with Jesus, I really never had a conscious romantic thought about Jimmy. I was so focused on and in love with Jesus that I wasn’t aware of any other feelings that might be happening inside me. Needless to say, Jimmy’s proposal to start dating caught me way off guard.'
-Kelly Needham

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

An Abundance of Blessings

My Daddy's Response To A Prayer:
Emily, a blessing is anything that you have, but shouldn't,. Both of your Grandmothers have died. You shouldn't have experienced a relationship with a grandma, but with me, because of me, you do! You shouldn't have a sisterly figure to look at, and go out with daily, weekly, or monthly since Mary isn't near, but I've given you Christina (sisters best friend- a constant influence), Jessica, Jennifer, Erica, Suzannah, Jordyn, Bethany (leaders and friends)...You shouldn't have your mother. Without me- the Father who knows what's best for his beloved child- in existence and control over your life, none of these would have been. My daughter, a blessing is something you couldn't have without me!
Unexplainable Joy
Incomprehensible Peace
Grief/sorrow for surrounding people/world (depending on circumstances, beliefs and all)
Hankering to Pray
Unique Spiritual Gifts
Personal Love Languages
Defying Talents
Close Relationship with your Sister
Brothers who are: Protective, diligent workers who love on you, laugh with you and accompany you on spur-of-the-moment, occasionally planned-in-advance outings.
Spiritual sisters, brothers, mothers, fathers and grandmothers- leaders, mentors, teachers- constantly spiritually and emotionally encouraging and challenging

All blessings would cease to exist without your all-knowing, omnipotent and enduring presence. Thank you Jesus for your mighty abilities to provide me with all that I need. I praise you for never ceasing to exceed all personal expectations. YOU are a blessing to know and have a relationship with. Thank you for being a constant daddy, an everlasting comforter, a renewal-of-peace-maker, healer and all. Amen!

“When we lose one blessing, another is often most unexpectedly given in its place.”
― C.S. Lewis

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

YOU CAN!

'Courage is scrounging up the ability to bravely encounter difficulties. Boldness is non-hesitantly responding to an arising challenge. Courage enables one to act. Boldness is doing.' -Emily Ann Bachand
Boldness is what I crave- I fear (sometimes and most often) interacting, speaking up, and occasionally acting upon... Worried about a lack of clear speech, proclaiming laughable falsehoods and ceasing to exceed all expectations set up for me.

I want courage in contrast to the danger of merely recognizing and then pondering- knowing without striving to accomplish, achieve, or overcome.
Oh Lord, I thought I was going to laugh and instead I started to cry- a reaction she didn't expect. I didn't fathom myself responding in tears. I'd suspect nothing else, I suppose. My sister-friend claimed,
"Hey Em, I want to tell you something. It's been a reoccurring thought during the past few times we've hung out...YOU CAN! God says, 'you can'."
And so, I CAN BE BOLD! I CAN slay doubt, defeat worry, and cause fear to singe in the scorching, fiery flames of ____!
I CAN trust God to be with me. He is the ultimate source of emboldening. Through Him, because of Him I am able.
And everyone said....AMEN!!!

Friday, January 20, 2012

A Kid Young At Heart- Day 3 & 4

When the power goes out...bare with me! These are coming to an end :)